Thursday 23 February 2012

Thrifty Small Style

I love a good deal! I do a lot of shopping for Wesley at thrift and consignment stores because he grows out of everything so fast, and because he's so hard on all his clothes. It feels good to be "recyling" rather than always buying new. That said, I picked up a bunch of shirts for Wesley on clearance at Joe the other day for $1.99. I got 5 for what you might normally pay for one. Doesn't get much better than that!

Here he is modelling one. I think it's super cute!


Shirt: Joe
Jeans: babyGap, consigned

As you can see, he decided to accessorize with the wooden spoon. I believe that's from Canadian Tire!

Thursday 16 February 2012

Playtime Small Style

Wesley and I spent the day at home today and he was in serious play-mode. We just went through a loooong phase of 'exploration mode' where our entire house was turned upside down and every nook and cranny and drawer and closet was discovered. Now he seems to be developing an attention span longer than 15 seconds and look out if you try and interrupt him while he's making soup (clanging around in a pot with a wooden spoon!). I love that the simplest, cheapest 'toys' are what entertain him the most! And I LOVE that he that I can see the wheels cranking in that little brain and that there is this delightful imagination developing!


Anything with a lid is a huge hit right now
Making time for a cuddle
Jeans: Children's Place
Shirt: Old Navy
Socks: Nike

Tuesday 14 February 2012

Pancakes and Romance (Happy Valentine's Day)

In honour of V-Day, I made these beet pancakes for breakfast for my two wonderful men. The recipe is from Weelicious.com (LOVE this site!) and they were really yummy... just the right amount of beet-y-ness. Mine definitely did not turn out as nice-looking though. I used a heart-shaped cookie cutter which I think may have been too small and the pancakes ended up as sort of weird looking blobs. I may have burnt a few too... but it's the thought that counts right?! And like I said... they were really good!

This morning on the day to celebrate love, I'm thinking about the two loves of my life and just how amazingly blessed I am to be called wife and mom by them!

Here's just one of the MANY things I'm feeling blessed by today...

Brian - I love that you are so quick to forgive and forget and that you never, ever bring up past wrongs.

Wesley - I love that you are learning to be gentle, and that you stroked my hair a few times this morning before pulling out my hair clip and throwing it down the stairs!

And both of you will eat whatever I put in front of you... beet pancakes and all!



Monday 13 February 2012

Now You're Speaking My Language! (Toddler-ese)

whine  
v. whined, whin·ing, whines
v.intr.
1. To utter a plaintive, high-pitched, protracted sound, as in pain, fear, supplication, or complaint.
2. To complain or protest in a childish fashion.
3. To produce a sustained noise of relatively high pitch

Welcome to my life right now. In the last couple of weeks, Wesley has turned into a toddler. He now has a definite mind of his own and knows exactly what he wants and when he wants it (NOW!). And because the only words he currently says are "mama", "dada" and "HOT!"... whining is his chosen mode of communication. Frustrating for both mom and babe.

Brian and I are determined to be both intentional and proactive in our parenting, and so in preparation for toddlerhood, I've been doing some reading (and a lot of praying too!). A book that I really love is The Happiest Toddler on the Block by Harvey Karp. His philosophy centres around preventing many of the difficulties that parents can experience in dealing with toddlers (tantrums, defiance etc)... and his main approach is something called toddler-ese. This basically means turning adult language into simple messages that kids can understand - especially when they're having a meltdown! Toddlers are ruled mostly by the emotional right brain, and when they get upset, the rational, thoughtful left brain basically shuts down. That's why our calm reasoning doesn't usually work with a tantruming toddler. Our words often don't make any sense to them. But they can understand non-verbal communication such as tone of voice or gestures. To use toddler-ese with an upset toddler, you reiterate back to your child how they are feeling using simple, short phrases while mirroring some of their emotion and intensity through your voice, face and body language.

Here's an example:
Your toddler is crying at the back door, desperately trying to reach the doorknob. In response, you get down to his level and point to the door. You would say something like, "You want... you want... you want... outside! Outside NOW!  Wesley says... 'go, go, go'!" You may need to repeat this a few times to get his attention, but soon he'll probably turn to you, as if to say, you talkin' to me? Once the crying lessens you would return to a normal speaking voice and explain in simple language why he can't go outside right now, and then offer an alternative or distraction, or nothing at all - whatever is appropriate for the situation.

Toddler-ese doesn't mean giving in to tantrums or misbehaviour - it's letting your toddler know that you understand their feelings or frustrations, but that doesn't mean they get their way.

I'll admit, toddler-ese feels a little ridiculous at first but I've been using it for a couple weeks now and for us, it really has worked! Wesley currently HATES getting his diaper changed and it usually turns into an all-out wrestling match. My reasoning of 'if you just hold still this will be over in a minute' just wasn't doing the trick, so I've been using toddler-ese and, 8 times out of 10, it calms him down enough that I can get the diaper changed pretty quickly. It's helped with the frantic whining too for a drink or a snack etc. (along with patience-stretching which the book also advocates).

It might not be for everybody,  but we're becoming fluent in toddler-ese in our house right now!

Thursday 9 February 2012

Speechless

I was listening to an old Steven Curtis Chapman CD this morning while I was cleaning and in the middle of scrubing the tub, this song came on... it just brought me to my knees... literally. I was overcome by the reminder of our miraculous salvation and the astounding love the Father has for us. I sat there with my rubber gloves on just weeping, truly speechless at the sacrifice that was made for ME so that I could be called a daughter of the King.



Speechless

Words fall like drops of rain
My lips are like clouds
I say so many things
Trying to figure you out
But as mercy opens my eyes
My words are stolen away
With this breathtaking view of your grace

And I am speechless I'm astonished and amazed
I am silenced by your wondrous grace
You have saved me
You have raised me from the grave
And I am speechless in your presence now
I'm astounded as I consider how
You have shown us
A love that leaves us speechless

So what kind of love could this be
That would trade heaven's throne for a cross
And to think you still celebrate
Over finding just one who was lost
And to know you rejoice over us
The God of this whole universe
It's a story that's too great for words

Oh how great is the love
The father has lavished upon us
That we should be called
The sons and the daughters of god

We are speechless so amazed
We stand in awe of your grace
We stand in awe of your mercy
You have saved us
We stand in awe of your love
From the grave
We are speechless

We are speechless in your presence now
We stand in awe of your cross
We're astounded as we consider how
We stand in awe of your power
You have shown us
A love that leaves us speechless
We are speechless

I am speechless

Monday 6 February 2012

mmmmuffins

I love muffins. They're the perfect mid-morning snack and a great breakfast too when you're in the mood for something other than the typical oatmeal or toast (staples in our house). Up until about the age of 18, I was under the mistaken impression that all muffins were healthy. I would happily devour a blueberry muffin from Tim Hortons thinking I was making a really smart choice... hey, I chose the muffin instead of the donut! Wrong. Muffins can hide TONS of fat and sugar within their yummy, moist interior. In fact, my beloved blueberry muffin from Tim's contains 340 calories, 11 grams of fat and 25 grams of sugar... and really no nutritional value whatsoever! The donut might have actually been a better choice!

So I wised up to the fact that all muffins are NOT healthy, but that doesn't mean I still don't love them, so I am always on the hunt for good, nutritious muffin recipes. I've tried a few news ones lately that I thought I'd share... enjoy!

Flourless Banana Mish-Mash Muffins

*This is a fairly dense muffin and they don't rise much while baking. Wesley and I ate them with a dollop of greek yogurt and they were really yummy!

1 1/2 cups rolled oats
1/2 cup wheat or oat bran
1/4 cup unsweetened applesauce
1/4 cup blackstrap molasses
1/4 cup unsweetened coconut
2 ripe bananas
1 tsp vanilla extract
1 tbsp baking powder
1 egg
pinch of salt
pinch of cinnamon

Preheat oven to 350 degrees. Grease muffin tins or use muffin liners.
In a large bowl combine applesauce, egg, molasses, bananas and vanilla until smooth. Add cinnamon if desired. Mix in oats, bran, baking powder and salt. Fold in coconut. Fill muffin liners halfway with batter. Sprinkle with rolled oats. Bake for 20 to 25 min until edges are light brown.

Sweet Potato Muffins

*These are Wesley's favourite! I usually make them as mini-muffins (you get about 18).

1 cup rolled oats
1 cup whole wheat flour
1/2 tsp baking soda
1 tsp baking powder
3/4 tsp nutmeg
3.4 tsp cinnamon
1 cup mashed, cooked sweet potato
1/2 cup dark brown sugar
3 tbsp canola oil
2 tbsp dried cranberries
1/4 cup milk (I use almond milk)
1 egg

Preheat oven to 375 degrees. Mix the oats, flour, baking soda, baking powder and spices together in a bowl.
Add the mashed sweet potato, sugar, oil, cranberries, milk and egg together until the ingredients are all completely moistened - but do not overmix.
Spoon the mixture into greased muffin tins and bake until firm and golden (around 15-20 min).

Banana-Blueberry Muffins

*I made these yesterday as I was craving something sweet. They are sort of 'almost-but-not-quite' healthy. Very fluffy and moist!

1 cup whole-wheat flour
3/4 cup all-purpose flour
1/4 cup wheat germ
1 teaspoon baking soda
1/2 teaspoon salt
1/2 cup unsalted butter, room temperature
1/3 cup granulated sugar
1/3 cup packed light-brown sugar
2 large eggs
2 ripe bananas
1/3 cup milk
1 teaspoon pure vanilla extract
1 cup frozen blueberries

1.Preheat oven to 375 degrees. Line a 12-cup muffin pan with paper liners. In a bowl, whisk together flours, wheat germ, baking soda, and salt.
2.In a large bowl, beat butter and sugars with a mixer until light and fluffy. Add eggs, one at a time, beating well after each addition. In another bowl, mash bananas with a fork (you should have 3/4 cup); stir in milk and vanilla.
3.With mixer on low, alternately add flour mixture and banana mixture to butter mixture, beginning and ending with flour mixture; mix just until combined. Fold in frozen blueberries.
4.Divide batter among muffin cups. Bake until a toothpick inserted in the center of a muffin comes out clean, 25 to 28 minutes, rotating pan halfway through. Let cool in pan 10 minutes; transfer muffins to a rack to cool 10 minutes more.

I made these monster cupcakes for Wesley's first birthday party. It was a "little monster" theme - although sadly our camera battery died after about 10 min so you'll just have to take my word for it when I say it was really cute! I wanted the cupcakes to be  healthy so I tried this recipe for "Baby's First Birthday Cake" and they turned out really well with just a simple whipped cream + cream cheese frosting.

Carrot Cupcakes

2 1/2 cups thinly sliced carrots
2 1/2 cups apple juice concentrate
1 1/2 cups raisins (optional)
2 cups whole wheat flour
1/2 cup vegetable or canola oil
2 eggs
4 egg whites
1 tbsp vanilla extract
3/4 cup unsweetened applesauce
1/2 cup wheat germ
2 tbsp baking soda
1 tbsp ground cinnamon

1. Preheat oven to 350 F. Line muffins tins with liners (if I make these again I would also spray the liners with cooking spray... they were pretty hard to peel).
2. Combine the carrots with 1 cup plus 2 tablespoons of the juice concentrate in a medium size saucepan.
3. Bring to a boil, then lower the heat and simmer, covered, until carrots are tender, 15 to 20 mins. Puree in a blender of food processor until smooth.
4. Add the raisins and process until finely chopped. Let mixture cool.
5. Combine the flour, wheat germ, baking powder, and cinnamon in a large mixing bowl. Add 1 1/4 cups juice concentrate, the oil, eggs, egg whites, and vanilla; beat just until well mixed. Fold in the carrot puree and applesauce. Pour the batter into the prepared cake pans.
6. Bake until a toothpick inserted in the center comes out clean, 25 to 30 mins. Cool briefly in the pans, then turn out onto wire racks to cool completely. When cool, frost.

Thursday 2 February 2012

Small Style Heads South

Wesley loved Cuba. He had a blast toddling along the beach, eating sand, splashing in the pool, streaking across the grass...

Having never traveled very far with him before, I was pretty nervous about how it would go. Would he do ok on the flight? A few hairy moments but overall, yes! Would it disrupt his routine? Nope, napped like a champ! Would it mess up his sleep? Uh-uh... we even got to sleep in a couple mornings! Would he do ok with the food? You really can live off oatmeal, bananas and cheese! (I had to take super deep breaths over this one. It's just a week. Repeat: It's just a week!)

Here's our little traveler in his vacation attire...





Hats: Joe
Rashguards: Old Navy (consigned) & Children's Place
Swimshorts: Old Navy (consigned) & babyGap

Learning to Breathe

Relaxation doesn't come naturally to me. I thrive being on-the-go and busy; I like checking things off my to-do list. If there are tasks at hand, I can't sit down until it's all done. So I'm an efficient person, but not always a relaxed or rested one. My husband often has to force me to slow down. This is not a good trait.

The last few weeks I had been feeling pretty burt out. I'll be the first to admit my busyness is often of my own making. I like to be involved in lots of things and hate saying no... but I recently started supply teaching part time and so things were just getting to be a little "too much". I hadn't been sleeping well either...which generally happens when I have too much on my mind. Actually, come to think of it, I hadn't slept really really well (you know that refreshing, soul-restoring kind of sleep?) in probably a year. Having a baby ruined me for sleep! Even after Wesley started sleeping through the night, I was still waking up all the time! Anyway...

We just got back from a week in Cuba and I'm coming home feeling totally relaxed and refreshed and restored. I feel like this past week I really learned to relax. It's a conscious effort for me, to force myself to slow down, to breathe, to not be thinking about the next thing to do. But I could hear the waves and the palm leaves breathing slow, relaxed breaths, and I matched my breathing too theirs. I was able to soak up the sun, and swim, and rest, and read, and read some more (all with a toddler! I have a truly wonderful husband!). And sleep... lovely lovely sleep! I think it must have been the sunshine and the salty air, but I slept like I haven't in a long, long time. Sound asleep when my head hit the pillow and not awake until Wesley's happy babbling in the morning. It felt soooo good.

We had a fairly trying and long trip home with a teething toddler, but it didn't take away from the relaxtion of our trip. And today, I let myself move at a slower pace. Not racing like I normally might to get the suitcases unpacked and the laundry done... remembering to breathe. That's really been the Lord's word to me lately... "breathe"... to breathe in His Holy Spirit, to breathe life into myself and those around me. A deep breathe is so cleansing, so refreshing... and this week-long breath was just what I needed.